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		<title>Dealing with the Emotional Hangover from Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/04/09/healing-the-emotional-hangover-from-leaving-an-abusive-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The emotional hangover when we’re undergoing recovery from a narcissistic relationship is typically profound sadness and secondary to this feeling is rage.  Rage that someone who professed to love you could suddenly turn around and treat you so entirely without &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/04/09/healing-the-emotional-hangover-from-leaving-an-abusive-relationship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1875&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>April is National Limb Loss Awareness Month</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/04/05/april-is-national-limb-loss-awareness-month/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 00:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are approximately 1.9 million people in the United States with some form of limb loss.  It is estimated that one out of every 200 people in the U.S. has had an amputation.  Some amputations are the result of injury or &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/04/05/april-is-national-limb-loss-awareness-month/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1826&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Punishing Sexuality of the Narcissist</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/25/the-pyrotechnic-sexuality-of-the-narcissist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 18:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The narcissist is threatened by a partner&#8217;s sexual and emotional needs and believes they are out to trap them and suck them dry.  This is the narcissist&#8217;s classic projection of their true inner self.  Because of this projection he or she tortures &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/25/the-pyrotechnic-sexuality-of-the-narcissist/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1773&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Time to get Angry: Ending the Narcissistic Relationship</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/18/time-to-get-angry-ending-the-narcissistic-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 23:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationships with narcissists are about blame: &#8220;I feel bad, and it&#8217;s your fault.&#8221;  What is a narcissist?  Narcissistic partners are self-centered with an excessive need for attention and admiration. They control with anger, violence, criticism, irritation, righteousness, invasive energy, and &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/18/time-to-get-angry-ending-the-narcissistic-relationship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1739&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Removing Blocks to Joy and Love: Codependents Facing Their Darker Side</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/07/codependents-facing-their-behavior-problems-removing-blocks-to-joy-and-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2013 06:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All the pieces of me are coming together as I acknowledge my own healing ability My past is no longer in charge of me Facing our darker side is a step in the right direction to rid ourselves of hiding for the &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/03/07/codependents-facing-their-behavior-problems-removing-blocks-to-joy-and-love/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1686&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Codependents, Dating, Mating, Growing, and Assessing for Partner Abuse</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/23/codependents-dating-mating-growing-and-assessing-for-partner-abuse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2013 22:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Codependents with a history of relationship abuse need to enter romantic relationships with awareness and respect for their neediness and unmet childhood dependency needs.   Codependents are some of the most loving people and find it difficult to leave abusive relationships.  They have &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/23/codependents-dating-mating-growing-and-assessing-for-partner-abuse/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1656&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Problem-Solving: The Work of Satisfying Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unresolved problems and conflicts in your relationship contribute to stress and tension, which leads to relationship dissatisfaction. Ask yourself, “Is it okay in my partnership to identify, have, and talk about problems?” All people have problems to work through. To &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/18/problem-solving-the-work-of-satisfying-relationships/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1647&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Trusting Ourselves to Leave an Abusive Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 20:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trusting yourself is the key to living well and being capable of trusting others.  You learn to trust yourself to leave any abusive relationship by listening and following through on your inner wisdom.  This is the start of practicing self-care &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/13/trusting-ourselves-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1632&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Energy Vampires: Emotional Sadism and the Narcissistic Relationship</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/08/energy-vampires-emotional-sadism-and-the-narcissistic-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2013 00:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>1solutionfocusedcoaching</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The narcissist is clearly sadistic in his or her rejection of others and in feelings of superiority.  What is a narcissist? Narcissism is a condition in which a person feels pathological self-hatred and is preoccupied with projecting a lovable image.  They are &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/08/energy-vampires-emotional-sadism-and-the-narcissistic-relationship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1617&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Telling Family Secrets about Abuse</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/04/telling-family-secrets-about-abuse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2013 23:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>1solutionfocusedcoaching</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Be quiet, don’t tell anyone ever.  Suck it up.  The child raised this way is a very special person.   The denial required of children in their effort to protect family secrets creates feelings of helplessness.   This is the legacy of &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/02/04/telling-family-secrets-about-abuse/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1579&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Knowing When to Leave an Abusive Relationship</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/26/dear-john-knowing-when-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/26/dear-john-knowing-when-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 20:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A relationships breaking point usually occurs over a series of crises many times before the real separation.   The decision to leave can be significant and painful, leaving deep scars that can also become the source of wisdom and change.  Relationships are &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/26/dear-john-knowing-when-to-leave-an-abusive-relationship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1496&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Damage from Toxic Parents is not a Life Sentence</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/21/damage-from-toxic-parents-is-not-a-life-sentence-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 00:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The adult behavior modeled in our family deeply affects the core beliefs we hold about ourselves and has long-lasting impacts on trust, self-esteem, and the ability to form or maintain healthy relationships. Our caregivers teach us what it means to &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/21/damage-from-toxic-parents-is-not-a-life-sentence-3/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1432&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Addiction and the Codependent Courtship</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/15/relationship-addicts-and-the-codependent-courtship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2013 23:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationship addiction for the codependent is an all-consuming and obsessive need for another person.  The best &#8220;fix&#8221; for the relationship addict is the whirlwind courtship where excitement is in the air as romance moves swiftly.  The thrill of something unexpected happening &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/15/relationship-addicts-and-the-codependent-courtship/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1348&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Sensitive Children and the Adult Child in the Abusive Narcissistic Home</title>
		<link>http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/10/sensitive-children-in-the-narcissistic-home/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2013 22:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a home affected with an abusive narcissistic parent emotions are repressed and become twisted.  Rules are built on shame, guilt, or fear.  Feelings are often not shared and when they are expressed, it is done in a judgmental manner &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/10/sensitive-children-in-the-narcissistic-home/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1327&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Partners Who Are Incapable of Feeling Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 18:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Each person who enters your life has a unique lesson to teach you What if your partner is incapable of feeling love? Chances are they have a deep-seated fear that if they love you (or anyone) that will give you &#8230; <a href="http://1solutionfocusedcoaching.com/2013/01/08/why-do-i-love-someone-incapable-of-loving-me/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=1solutionfocusedcoaching.com&#038;blog=32770738&#038;post=1284&#038;subd=1solutionfocusedcoaching&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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